Mental Preparation
When playing matches against better players than myself, I often start rushing my shots and making a lot of mistakes to the point where sometimes my game goes completely to pieces. It also happens near the end of matches - even when I'm well ahead, I'll often throw points away and end up losing. No amount of telling myself to calm down seems to help. Is there a trick or technique that might help?
Hi Mandy,
This sounds like a matter of nerves and tension. The only thing is to reduce that tension. Before each point, where you are starting to feel yourself rush, take a long deep abdominal breath. Then focus on your tactic for the next point. Breathing between points is a simple way of calming yourself down.
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Leslie Yin Posted 12 years ago
From my own perspective I find that if I'm playing someone who's better than I am, I have nothing to lose and don't have any pressure if I lose. It's even more relaxing knowing that if I can pressure my opponent, they'll be feeling more anxiety than me as they are expected to win.
Mandy Sutter Posted 12 years ago
Rajesh Sawant Posted 12 years ago
Hi Mandy,
I completely understand your situation :) adding to alois's comments, after you deep breath try to put smile on your face and feel relax and then concentrate on your game and main thing dont rush on finishing game just relax, smile and try to concentrate this will help you alot.
Thanks,
Rajesh Suhas Sawant
Mandy Sutter Posted 12 years ago
Dear Rajesh
Thanks for your understanding and advice - I am sure a smile could be a big help in relaxing!
Ji-Soo Woo Posted 12 years ago
Mandy Sutter Posted 12 years ago